Random thoughts

So, I am slightly nervous over a conversation that I am about to have a with a friend. I'm going to be explaining to her about the leather community. I'm not nervous about how she will take it, cause she knows that it has to do with BDSM But it is my practice run on explaining it to Vanilla people and those that will not necessarily be okay with the Dominance and submission that is part of the leather community. Now most people would suggest that I take the easy route and just work the gay centric charities. And for them, that is the answer. But what I am hoping/wanting/needing to do is to show the straight/hetero people that the gay and trans communities aren't really different and that we are all just people. So, I am going to be looking to do charity work that is not gay centric. This means getting used to explaining what the leather community is and why I am helping with their particular charity. My first dry run with that will be Thursday. Followed by the questions that I would not answer at work. *giggle*

In other ideas, the fantasy has come together and the only elements missing are the actual fight choreography as well as learning it with those involved in it. And the music that will be playing. Since I haven't really found a song that works well for this part of the Leather Girl competition, I have decided that (since I have two years until I'm competing), I'm going to write my own music for it! *giggle* This will be really fun!!!!!!

There also was a big family bru-ha-ha that I will not be chronicling here. But to put it short, they were fighting over me and I didn't even know about it. . .and the irony is, is that I really don't have extra time to take off anyway, so it doesn't really matter.